BSF Study Questions Matthew Lesson 22, Day 5: Matthew 22:1-14

Summary of passage:  Jesus told another parable, saying the kingdom of heaven is like a king who prepared a wedding banquet for his son.  He invited guests but they refused to come.  He told the guests about the succulent meal and they still refused to come.  Then they beat the servants who carried the message and killed them.  The king then sent an army and destroyed the murderers and their city.

Then the king invited anyone they could find both good and bad on the streets to come and the wedding hall was filled with guests.  The king discovered a man not wearing wedding clothes and had him thrown outside into the darkness with weeping and gnashing of teeth.  Many are invited but few are chosen.


11a)  God invitation to us to accept Christ as the sacrificial lamb, believe in him, that he paid our penalty on the cross

b)  The servants would be prophets or missionaries or believers doing God’s work and then punished or martyred because of it.  All the disciples were martyred except John and Judas Iscariot.  Stephen.  Most likely Paul.  Joan of Arc.  Kenneth Bae.

c)  Jesus’ crucifixion or Jesus’ second coming

d)  Believers in Christ

e)  Isaiah says garments of salvation and a robe of righteousness and jewels.

f)  The will have God’s army sent upon them and be destroyed as murderers and their cities burned.  They will also be thrown out of heaven out into the darkness where there is weeping and a gnashing of teeth.

12a)  Same.  They are too busy to come or they are too preoccupied with things they bought (material items) or too distracted or they are worshipping an idol such as a new spouse.  Anything that is more important than God.

b)  Personal Question.  My answer:  Those who reject God and Christ will not have a taste of God’s banquet.  This is a warning to believe in Christ or face eternal damnation.

c)  Personal Question.  My answer:  Yes because I have faith in Jesus Christ as my Savior and are thus justified by His grace through Jesus’ blood.  Thus, I am therefore clothed in a robe of righteousness and a garment of salvation with jewels that symbolize the Holy Spirit within.

d)  Personal Question.  My answer:  God extends His invitation to all but in the end He only opens the eyes and ears of those chosen to receive Him and His Son and accept Him and believe.  Those who put God first will be chosen.

Conclusions:  I like the wedding parallel as most people can relate to the symbolism.  A wedding is usually one of the biggest events in a person’s life.  Here, a royal wedding would have been a spectacular affair, one everyone would have prized an invitation for.  Similar to Prince William and Kate’s royal wedding.  This illustrates just how illogical people can be when refusing God’s invitation.

Those cast out of the party were because they did not have a heart for God.  They were there for selfish reasons (free food) and could care less about the people involved.

End Notes:  In Jewish culture invitations were often sent out twice, once announcing the event and second when the event was ready.  God is always ready for us.  Are we ready for Him?

Man chooses as does God.  Man refused to come.  God chose to not accept him.  The great dichotomy of the Bible.  We must choose God.  God must choose us by His grace.  It’s a two-way street.  Many hear the call.  Few respond.  Few God chooses to respond.


3 thoughts on “BSF Study Questions Matthew Lesson 22, Day 5: Matthew 22:1-14

  1. Regarding Question #11c, I think the historical event mentioned could be the burning and destruction of Jerusalem in 70 A.D. when the Roman general, Titus, demolished the city and fulfilled the prediction of Jesus in Matt 24:2 when the temple was destroyed and no stone left unturned.


  2. I like how u answered Matthew 22:14. I’ve always been perplexed with this and have had many debates with other Christians (in a loving manner) on predestination and free will. I sit right in the middle of the two and I believe that you brought it to light the full circle of it. You freely chose him and when done you are chosen but since this life has already happened god knew who would be chosen based on who chose him. My personal opinion on the matter anyway. Thank you for your blog.


    1. All are called or invited to the party, but most will reject the invite due to conflicting interests (putting other earthly interest ahead of a rightful relationship with the Creator, which=sin). In short, most will chose their favorite sin over God. We see in this parable that it is God who does the inviting(coming to us), not us inviting God. We do have “free will”, in that we are free to refuse Him. Many (most) will miss out on the wedding feast of the Lamb because they refuse to respond to the invitation properly (in faith). This sadly includes many who, while being “churched” are not in the church for the correct reason(s). In the parable this would be the one who was found without the wedding garment- the garment or robe of righteousness (faith) which is supplied by the host (God). God is the host, Jesus is the groom, the church is the bride or the attendees to the Feast (Christological and Eschatological). The first refusals are from those who were first invited (Israel), the second refusal are those who not only rejected the invite but the messengers by killing them (think of all the prophets who met this fate in bringing God’s word to the masses). In verse 9 ff. we see the invite going to the gentiles (non-Jews). Later we find in the “Great Commission” that we Christians are charged with taking that same invite to the rest of the world- including those who by birth are raised to reject the Host (God), the Groom (Jesus), the Bride (Church), and the Feast (Eternal Kingdom of Heaven). I know that most of the differences encountered among believers is based on use of language and often we say the same thing with differing language which confuses and corrupts the point to be made. But, the good news is that we are invited at all. The great news is that we are clothed in the righteousness of Jesus and admitted to the Lord’s table, for eternity. Grace, Mercy, and Peace to you from God our Father and from our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. Amen!


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